Showing posts with label Dating Advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Dating Advice. Show all posts

Sunday, April 6, 2014

Tips for Secretly Meeting Someone You Have Your Eye On

Did you know that in Canada and the US, 27 percent households are head by a single person? It is also believed that around 48 percent of single men, and 28 percent of women, believe in love at first sight. But what happens when someone is too shy to simply walk over and introduce themselves to someone they have their eye on?

“Walking up to someone to meet them can be intimidating for many people,” explains Jason Connery, the co-founder of Secret RSVP. “The good news is that there are ways around this that can help you feel more comfortable.”

Connery’s new social meet-up website, Secret RSVP, sets itself apart from other online dating websites by letting members secretly invite people they are interested to meet to fun group events. It also removes the random nature of online dating since people get to choose whom they want to meet at events and in so doing, save time throughout the dating process.

Singles can create a profile, add people they are interested to meet to their guest list, and then secretly invite them to a group event, such as hiking or bowling. The person who receives the invitation can, in turn, secretly invite others they are interested to meet to the same event. This creates an event chain where everyone at the event knows whom they invited, but have no idea who asked them out.

In addition to this pressure-free, secretive way to meet someone you have your eye on, Connery offers other creative ways to consider using:

  • Find out about the person’s interests. Determine if the person is in any type of interest groups, such as painting, sports, or volunteer clubs. If so, join these same groups and start contributing actively as a member. This puts the focus on the activity and hopefully, you will get introduced to the person, without them knowing why you joined the club in the first place.
  • Join the person’s circles. Make their friends your friends. This is much easier if the person of interest is in your school or work environment. With time, you may be able to hang out together at the same place and be introduced to each other.
  • Make eye contact. This is especially easy if you locate yourself close to the person of interest. For example, if you catch the same bus and position yourself across from the person, you can work at making eye contact.
  • Send a gift. Most people find it flattering to have a secret admirer. Whether sending a drink over to their table, or an edible cookie arrangement, it will help to make meeting someone a lot easier.

Secret RSVP cards are tied to one’s membership within the Website through a unique identification code. By handing the card to someone of interest through a third party, say a waiter or a friend, the person who receives the card is directed to join the Website and enter the unique code. The giver of the card will be automatically notified when the person joins the website, and can secretly invite the person to a group event.

Secret RSVP currently has online dating events and activities scheduled in New York City, Los Angeles, Toronto, Vancouver, and Calgary. More cities are being added as additional people create profiles in particular areas. There is no charge to create a profile and there are no membership fees. The only fee someone has is when he or she registers to attend an event. For more information visit Secret RSVP.



Tuesday, October 8, 2013

The 90-Day Rule


One of things that I love about blogging, versus writing for a column, is that I can be blunt. I don’t care how “evolved” a person is and how much people profess to hate “playing games,” the bottom line is that EVERYONE plays games (consciously or not)! For the sake of the enlightened person, I’ll do my best to explain the subconscious game playing.

As much as you try to throw out the list in your head of whom you’ve decided is the perfect mate for you, you still have a picture of the ideal mate. And because of that picture, when you first meet a potential partner, you present your “public” self. What is the public self? It is the persona that you want the world to see. For example, you probably don’t want anyone outside of your trusted circle to know that you watch the entire (and only) season of “My So Called Life” just so that you can salivate over Jared Leto. This dirty little secret isn’t going to be the first thing that you share with that gorgeous guy that you’ve just met. For a guy, you’re probably not going to share that 5-years after graduating college, you still feel that beer and pizza is the breakfast of champions. No, no ... you are going to present yourself as a well-rounded and polished individual.

So, yeah um ... okay, what is “The 90-day Rule,” right? It is the first 3 months, 90 days, 2160 hours, 129600 minutes, 7776000 seconds that you know a person. I don’t give a crap what anyone says, this period of time is when each person is on his or her very best behavior. He will not dare leave the toilet seat up, she will not nag you to meet her parents, he will make sure that his friends don’t act like apes, she will make sure that her friends don’t either. Everything about this new romance is bright, shiny, and fucking perfect. Then comes day 91! You’ve now established your new relationship and you’re going to begin to see the cracks in the other person’s personality.

The absolute must for dating – Do not get overly invested in the other person before 90 days. And that, dear people, is “The 90-day Rule”. Oh, by the way, “The 90-day Rule” applies to any situation ... a job ... a friendship ... a marriage. :)

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Saturday, June 22, 2013

Seven Signs That It Is Time To Break Up

School’s out, summer has begun, and so too have those annoying thoughts that all is not right with your relationship. But, you’re simply not sure if you should continue dating your boyfriend or girl. It’s an uncomfortable feeling for sure. Of course, you’re not the first person to feel “on the fence” about a relationship.

We all know that relationships aren’t always easy. And ending a relationship is just as upsetting for the person who is initiating the break up as it is for the person who is getting … dumped. No matter how uncomfortable it may be to end your relationship, you can’t feel guilty for wanting to move on and if you’re still unsure, check out the list for the seven signs that it’s time to bail.

If you or someone you know is in an abusive situation, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline (800) 799-7233 at or visit The Hotline.

1. You've Sought Advice

This one should be really easy. If you’re reading this article, you’re already half way out the door. When you begin to look for validation to break up, it’s time to go.

2.) You’re Eye Starts to Wander

Okay, so everyone fantasizes sometimes. Even in a deeply committed relationship. But, if you’re constantly thinking about someone else, it is so over.

3.) I Hate You, Don’t Leave Me

It isn't just a Demi Lovato song. If you miss you girlfriend/boyfriend when they’re not around, but can’t wait to get away when you’re together, that’s a good indication that you’re only in the relationship, to be in a relationship.

4.) Everything is Forced

From conversations to tolerating your guy or girl’s friends, everything that the two of you do is more than just a compromise on your part. You don’t seem to enjoy anything that the other person wants to do and you’re trying to remember why you began dating. Guess what? It’s time to break up.

5.) Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend Doesn't Trust You

This really should be self-explanatory, but for so many it isn't  Jealousy or distrust is not a sign of affection; it’s a sign to get out. 

6.) Your Boyfriend/Girlfriend Makes Rules

From what you wear to what you do when he or she isn't with you. Seriously? Do you want a parent or a partner? Making rules for one another is equally ridiculous.

7.) You or He/She Wants to Take A Break

Everyone needs autonomy, so I’m not talking about you or him/her wanting some time alone. I’m talking about an extended time apart. If you’ve thought that “taking a break” would be a great idea, it’s time to take a break up … you’ll be okay all by yourself.


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Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Where To Get A Thorough Dating Site Review


All the conventional methods of trying to meet “Mr. or Ms. Right” really haven’t worked out for you. So you’re thinking about trying online dating, but with thousands of sites to choose from, which one is right for you? You’re in luck! BestDatingWebsitesReviews.com (BDWR) announced today a review of the top dating websites.

Websites that provide reviews do not necessarily do more than copy the language provided by the dating site itself and never actually go into the site and discover its pros and cons based on any criteria. BDWR employees actually use the dating sites that they review, and have provided information based on eight criteria. After going through all of those criteria, a score from 0-5 is given to rank the sites against each other.

BDWR’s review criteria includes:

  • Price
  • What's Included In Price
  • Type Of Site
  • Features
  • Ease Of Use
  • Aesthetic Appeal
  • Matching Testing
  • Compatibility Testing

BDWR’s top three top-rated sites are currently eHarmony, Match.com, and Chemistry. eHarmony.com received 5 stars on the rating scale and is number one because of its membership and great communication features. Following closely is Match.com with 4.5 stars. BDWR reports that Match.com is so highly rated because of its quality and price combination. They say it is a high quality, widely known site, and its monthly fee is far below that if its closest competitors. Next is Chemistry.com with 4 stars.

BDWR reports that Chemistry.com is the best choice for people looking for a very serious relationship because of their great matchmaking and compatibility testing. Hopefully, this helps the Dating Examiner’s readers start off into the online dating scene with a little more confidence.

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Sunday, August 5, 2012

Octomom Auctions Self on Dating Website


“Octomom,” Nadya Suleman, is auctioning herself off on a dating website. The mother of 14 has created a profile on What'sYourPrice.com, a site where users can pay other users to go out with them.

The move is apparently a last-ditch attempt at earning more money before she is kicked out of her La Habra home, which was foreclosed in June because she couldn't pay the mortgage. Suleman previously signed up to GoFundMe.com in a bid to raise $150,000 for a down payment on a new home. However, she has so far only attracted $2,509 in donations.

“Octomom’s” dating profile lists her as a “Media Personality” and she isn’t limiting her dates just to men. Describing herself as “full of energy, love to work out. I am very athletic and love to laugh.” Suleman’s ideal date would be working out or doing something athletic and then having a nice dinner.

Her profile also says that she’s “willing to travel.” So if this sounds like an ideal match for you, bidding starts at $500. Suleman has also attempted to earn enough money to save her home by working in porn and spending time as a stripper. Questions about dating? Here’s a tip … don’t date a woman who auctions herself off to the highest bidder.

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Thursday, August 2, 2012

25 Fun and Inexpensive Date Ideas

We may want the guy or girl, but sometimes we need to stick to budget. That, of course, does not mean that we have to forgo fun and dating. The weekend is right around the corner and the Dating Examiner thought it would be a great opportunity to share a few fun and inexpensive date ideas.

1.      Watch the sunset together. Pack a picnic; bring a blanket and viola you have a beautiful, romantic and inexpensive date.
2.      Spend the afternoon at an outdoor market.
3.      Visit a local zoo or public farm.
4.      Rent a movie, buy popcorn and soda, and snuggle with a blanket.
5.      Break out the board games for an indoor game night.
6.      Find a free outdoor concert. There are a plethora of places that host them, so it truly won’t be difficult to find a free venue.
7.      Take a bike ride.
8.      Go to a local museum. This is another place where admission may be free.
9.      Plan a picnic with wine, cheese, crackers, and a comfy blanket.
10.  Spend the afternoon at the beach.
11.  Go on a road trip for the day.
12.  Go to a carnival. Local festivals and carnivals are usually free to get in and you’ll only pay for what you’d like to do.
13.  Find a bar with karaoke.
14.  Go on a geo-caching treasure hunt or one of the many free activities offered by State parks.
15.  Go hiking.
16.  Have a bonfire.
17.  Fly kites.
18.  Volunteer somewhere. You’ll spend quality time together and help out someone else.
19.  Go out for ice cream. Huge, topping-crazed ice creams.
20.  Play Bingo. It’s surprisingly fun, affordable and there are an abundance of place that host Bingo.
21.  Have a water gun fight.
22.  Grab tickets to a local college sports game.
23.  Go to a jazz club.
24.  Go for a night drive.
25.  Grab inflatable tubes and spend an afternoon on a river.

Remember the objective of these date ideas is just to have fun together and if you’re with a good guy or girl, it absolutely shouldn’t matter how much you’re spending on that person. I hope that you find a date idea that you like! Readers…do you have any inexpensive date ideas? If so, share them in the comment section below.

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Tuesday, July 31, 2012

President Obama gay marriage billboards censored throughout the United States


Billboards featuring President Obama presiding over gay marriages between leading Republican politicians have been banned across America. The images were created using look-alikes to announce the gay and lesbian versions of the dating website BeautifulPeople.com. The campaign even includes a “wedding album.”

As the ban came too late to change the campaign, the billboards were put up with the images obscured and the words "censored" written across them. The censored billboards provoked a flood of online speculation as to the identities of the couples. One billboard shows a loving embrace between the Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney and Donald Trump. Another billboard features former presidential hopeful Michele Bachmann kissing Sarah Palin.

Apparently, the only place in America that would take the uncensored billboards was on the side of a truck. The billboard truck was driven all around New York before parking up outside Trump Towers. BeautifulPeople.com, of course, are claiming that the “light-hearted” campaign was conceived in response to the heated political debate about same-sex unions in the United States. The Dating Examiner says, “Here’s your 15 minutes.”


The Supreme Court is due to hear several challenges to a 1996 law, which defines marriage as a union between a man and a woman. In May, President Obama came out in support of gay marriage, setting him apart from Mr. Romney and the vast majority of Republicans.

On a positive note, the dating website has committed to playing an active role in the national effort to legislate equal rights for the LGBT community. The company has promised to give 15 percent of membership dues from every same-sex membership to nonprofit organizations championing marriage equality.


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Sunday, July 22, 2012

The Great Male/Female Surveys 2012 results revealed


AskMen today announced the results of the world's largest survey of men, the Great Male Survey, now in its sixth edition. AskMen has partnered with TresSugar, the sex and culture website of POPSUGAR, for the Great Female Survey, which, with more than 50,000 respondents overall, reveals new statistics about the way men and women think about dating, sex, technology, politics and lifestyle.

This year's political, economical and technological climates have changed the way men and women interact with one another. If there's a theme to these results, it's that men are committing to family more than ever before and that women are increasingly committed to their professional lives.

Here's a taste of the eye-opening data collected from the 2012 Great Male/Female Surveys:

When asked which celebrity they would vote for as President of the United States of America, respondents (35% of men and 46% of women) agreed that George Clooney was the best fit for the job. Every man needs a good wingman, and who better than one of the two presidential nominees? 79% of men picked Barack Obama over Mitt Romney as wingman material, and 70% of women chose Michelle Obama over potential First Lady Ann Romney as their brunch pal.

57% of men stated that nothing is more important to them than being a great father and husband who takes care of his family. 49% of women found that being a "real woman" has to do with being attractive, being a great lover and having financial independence. Did you ever think that men would pick education over sex? When it comes to future hologram use, 30% of men are anticipating the educational benefits of the technology, rather than potential holographic pornography (14%).

If you’re a woman fearing that age is catching up with, men in 2012 aren't just after 20-somethings. Forty-year-old Sofia Vergara was voted AskMen's Most Desirable Woman in the 2012 edition of the Top 99. And actually, you have more to fear regarding your online persona. When it comes to "pre-stalking" a potential partner online, 78% of men say they use the Internet to gain information on prospective partners, while 31% of women say they don't "pre-stalk" at all (Ladies, you know that this is a lie!).

You can view the entire findings from AskMen's Great Male Survey by clicking HERE and TresSugar's Great Female Survey by clicking HERE.

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How to talk to your partner about STDs



Chlamydia. Syphilis. Gonorrhea. They’re not easy topics to discuss with your partner, but sexually transmitted disease (STD) and sexually transmitted infection (STI) rates are on the rise. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), STDs remain a major public health challenge in the United States. The CDC estimates that there are approximately 19 million new STD infections each year.

Eli Dancy, founder of STFree Certifications Inc. and creator of the unprecedented “Safe Sex License,” which is recognized by the CDC and the New York State Department of Health and Mental Hygiene, designed and recently launched a new app, “Chec-Mate.”

Mr. Dancy shared with the Dating Examiner, that at the age of 21 he’d left “a life of promoting what some may consider to be un-safe sexual environments to try to reverse a steadily increasing STD/HIV rate in my community.” This change led to the 2001 introduction of the world’s first Safe Sex License, which was a smartcard that allowed individuals to instantly share the last times they were screened for various STDs instantly and confidentially.

The Chec-Mate app is the first and only Smartphone app developed for the iOS and Android device that allows you to verify, share or exchange your recent STI screening dates and results instantly, securely and confidentially. If you could share your current STD status with someone instantly, via your phone, would you? The new Chec-Mate app was the next obvious step.

“We are excited that advancements in technology have provided us with an opportunity to be the first to provide the world a secure platform to safely exchange lifesaving information,” says Mr. Dancy.

With approximately 19 million STI infections reported each year in the United States alone, the Chec-Mate app is long overdue. The app can be downloaded for free via iTunes and allows users:

·        Instant access to screening results 24 hours a day 7 days a week
·        Confidential Screening Result Verification
·        Safe & Secure Storage
·        Built in Screening Facility Locator

While the Dating Examiner recognizes that discussing STDs are not the sexiest subject, my mantra is, “If you can’t talk about all aspects of sex, then you shouldn’t be having sex.” Think about it. You are sharing one of the most intimate acts, it doesn’t matter if it’s a one-nighter it’s still intimate and yet, you don’t have the moxie to talk about your STD status? Seems absurd doesn’t it? The Chec-Mate app is the perfect tool to help you quickly and comfortably open up that discussion with your partner. For more information about Chec-Mate, please click HERE and to download the free app, please click HERE. If you have

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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Tips for a first date: The dos and don'ts


The hottie that you’ve been eyeing has finally asked you out to dinner, or maybe that hottie has accepted a date with you. Either way, first dates can be unnerving for both guys and gals. Now that you’ve crossed the first hurdle of getting the object of your affections to accept a date, what are going to do to ensure that you don’t blow it?


There are a lot of common mistakes that people make on the first date. Below are some tips to help you avoid the most common pitfalls that guarantee you won’t be having a second date.

Don’t get ahead of yourself.
It's okay to get excited before you go out with someone new, but stay realistic. If your expectations are low, then a good date will be a welcome surprise and a bad date will be no big deal.

Do be open to unexpected date ideas.
A local art museum or a common interest activity might be a better way to get to know each other than the typical restaurant and a movie date.

Don’t go somewhere overflowing with people.
Crowded nightclubs or concerts are distracting and no place to talk. You need to be able to focus upon getting to know your date.

Do bring dental supplies with you.
Having something stuck in your teeth is not very appealing neither is bad breathe. Bring mints, gum or breath spray and floss.

Do have a positive attitude.
Sometimes things do not goes as planned. Life is not perfect and neither are you. So definitely cut your date a little slack if things go slightly awry. Laugh it off and find the fun in the situation.

Don’t turn your dates into therapy sessions.
Your date does not want to hear about your ex, your horrible coworkers or boss and definitely not about your financial troubles. Keep the conversation lighthearted.

Do order a big-girl meal.
Do you really think salad will hold you over all night? It’s a fact that most guys like a woman with a normal appetite.

Don’t psychoanalyze your date.
Attempting to analyze his or her psyche is completely inappropriate, even if you have a psych degree.

Do call a friend for a pep talk.
If you're suffering from first-date jitters, call a friend for a few words of encouragement. Of course, got to the restroom or somewhere private to do this.

Don’t get too personal.
Your date’s financial status is none of your business. Asking if your date is interested in marriage, kids; etcetera is a sure way to not get a second date.

Do discuss issues that are important to you.
Yes, it is okay to find out if the two of you see eye to eye.

Don’t let him/her take you to a second location.
That is, if you don't like him or her. It is a waste of your time and your date’s.

Do break the dating “rules”.
If you want to call him or her, call. If it’s a typical guy/girl date, calling him will show that you’re interested in a second date. And guys, waiting too long to call her after the first date will guarantee that you won’t get a second.

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Thursday, July 12, 2012

New sex survey gives a peek beneath the sheets



When it comes to the bedroom, Americans are fun, fearless and adventurous, according to new research from the makers of Trojan condoms. New findings released today as part of the “Trojan Charged Sex Life Survey” found that while two-thirds of American adults are satisfied with their sex life, one in two (50 percent) feel their sex life needs a jump-start.

According to the survey, Americans are having more sex (151 times a year / 2.9 times a week) compared to 2011 (120 times a year / 2.3 times a week), sexual satisfaction is on the decline, with 67 percent of Americans claiming to be satisfied with their sex life in 2012 versus 76 percent in 2011. There's room for improvement and Americans are looking for ways to charge things up under the sheets, with nearly 81 percent looking for ways to make their sex life more exciting.

Fifty-six percent of Americans say they are sexually adventurous, with Midwesterners taking the lead in this thrill-seeking endeavor (60 percent). Meanwhile the South is in need of some satisfaction with 44 percent having faked an orgasm and 53 percent reporting their sex life needs to be charged, which leads the nation.

The makers of Trojan condoms sought to understand the ins and outs of what really turns Americans on and uncovered that one size does not fit all. Eighty-eight percent of Americans believe sex needs a little novelty now and then, and they are looking for ways to keep things fresh.
  • Top ranking ways in which Americans charge things up include spontaneous sex (48 percent), using lubricant (40 percent), having sex someplace different (36 percent) and erotic talk (32 percent).
  • Seventy-two percent of pleasure-seekers would introduce a vibrator into the bedroom to shake things up and 70 percent are open to trying a new condom designed to enhance orgasmic pleasure.
  • Americans think outside of the bedroom – Thirty-two percent of Americans have had sex outdoors, with one in three having hooked up on the beach or at a friend's place and one in four at their in-laws' house.
  • Whether it's tweeting, texting or posting, Americans turn to technology when sex is on the mind – twenty-three percent have engaged in “sexting,” 16 percent have sent a naughty photo or video and 22 percent have participated in phone sex.
Stats on Sex Coast-to-Coast
  • Atlanta lives up to its "Hotlanta" status with residents proving to be the most sexually adventurous (71 percent) and exhibiting the highest sex drive.
  • Miami residents seem to keep things sizzling with the highest rate of sexual satisfaction (73 percent) and most sex (177 times a year).
  • Dallas proves its cowboys know how to saddle up, with residents having the longest sack sessions (39 minutes), yet they are most likely to have faked an orgasm (47 percent).
  • Bay Area residents prefer quality versus quantity, having the least amount of sex (120 times a year) and shortest sessions (31 minutes), yet have high rates of satisfaction (65 percent) and are least likely to fake an orgasm (31 percent).
Sex Life Through Life Stages
  • Parents work hard to keep things charged and more likely to have spontaneous sex (54 percent), sex in different places (45 percent) and incorporate a vibrator (34 percent) than couples without children.
  • Sexual appetite takes a plunge with age with seniors admitting to having sex 62 times a year (versus 151 times a year for Millennials) and a mere 53 percent claiming to be sexually satisfied (versus 76 percent of Millennials).
  • Boomers (32 percent) are the least likely to fake an orgasm compared to Millennials (45 percent), Gen X (45 percent) and Seniors (38 percent).
Most likely to be one the more interesting findings in the Trojan Charged Survey are the uncovering of the intimate details on how men and women think and operate when it comes to sex. The findings show that while they are equally satisfied in the bedroom, men are constantly on a journey to charge things up. Sex is on the mind with men thinking about the deed 15 times a day, versus women, who fantasize about the bedroom a mere four times per day. 41 percent of men indicated they want sex to last longer, compared to 34 percent of women. 19 percent of men have faked an orgasm versus nearly sixty percent of women, which may explain why 52 percent of women believe they need to charge things up in the bedroom.

The Trojan Charged Sex Life Survey was based on two studies conducted by StrategyOne. The survey was conducted from May 4 – May 15, 2012. The first, a national sample of 1,000 10-minute surveys were conducted online among U.S. Adults. The results are nationally representative based, weighted to U.S. Census on age, gender, region, ethnicity, income, and education.

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Tips to attain a healthy date life



So you’ve met a guy, there’s an attraction, and at some point he asks you to dinner or vice versa. As with 90 percent of women, you begin to go through a checklist. Is he boyfriend/husband material? What kind of father would he be? Stop! If your objective for dating is solely to find a mate then you’ve already lost. Approaching each date as if it were a “boyfriend/husband” interview is a waste of time. This is only a date, as simple get together of two people, who at this point, do not necessarily share more then a physical attraction.

The objective of dating should be to simply have fun, enjoy the other person’s company, and hopefully make a new friend. Let’s explore the friend concept. Think for a moment how much respect and value you have for your friends. Your friends are people that you deeply care for, their opinions and thoughts are valued, and you sincerely respect them as human beings. The aforementioned sounds like a great recipe for a successful relationship right? So why shouldn’t you approach dating with friendship at the forefront?

If you’re honest with yourself, you can agree that the best relationships are founded upon mutual respect born from friendship. Unfortunately, if you’ve been taking the “boyfriend/husband” shopping approach to dating, you can’t get there from here. You need to take a step back and evaluate you before you can move forward.

Here are a few tips to get you started:
  • Get rid of that stupid checklist. Be honest, you know that you have some checklist in your head or possibly even on paper regarding the perfect mate. Guess what? The perfect mate doesn’t exist and it is completely unfair to another person to attempt to make them live up to your fantasy standards. If you wouldn’t want a guy expecting you to be the perfect “trophy” gal, then don’t expect the perfect anything from them.
  • Do you know who you are? Have you taken the time, energy, and work to discover who you really are? If you continuously date the same type of guy or have a pattern for ending up in the same type of unhealthy relationship, doesn’t it make sense to step back and take some time to figure out what’s healthy for you? Recognizing redundant dating patterns is the first step toward developing new and healthy approaches for dating.

Ask yourself this - Would you rather go out on 50 dates that lead to a few awesome friendships or would you rather rush through and end up in one horrible, unhealthy relationship? Dating is supposed to be a fun, no pressure experience. Focus your energy on simply enjoying the other person’s company and you will be a happier person for it. Remember this, you have to have a positive, healthy love for yourself before you can have a healthy, positive love for anyone else.


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